do you think divorce is good?

Kate Baune: It's a double edge'd sword, isn't it?IF the relationship is abusive, then divorce is good.However...If divorcing is the "easy resolution" to the fact they weren't serious enough when entering into something as special as a "marriage" in the first place.... then the divorce could likely be a sign of a juvenile, careless, and unaccountable mindset of amoral people....Show more

Clinton Migliori: if the couple really doesnt have the feeling anymore and things arent working out, they would be much happier if they got the divorce because they wont always feel so miserable. they have a new start.

Morris Cuomo: lawyers ar blood sucking parasites

Ezekiel Kadner: I personally would never get a divorce unless I was forced into it. I dont think it's good. Plus I agree with the first guy it does seem stressful my boyfriend is going through a divorce because his ex wife left him for another man. I would never do that to my future husband.

Carolin Sou! thers: Money back from whom? the attorney? he still did the work, spent his time on your case rather than someone else's...do you want your money back from him? Since he was still your spouse when he died you are entitled to spousal benefits. what more do you want?*if you paid a large retainer in advance and have unused funds in the lawyer's trust account you are certainly entitled to the excess....Show more

Sharron Salin: Depends on his will. You are not officially divorced yet, but in the process so I do not know the exact law- but either way I am sure it will be a fight. And in the case of you not being entitled as a wife, I am sure there is some arrangement of money in the settlement you made.

Coleman Deliberato: If you paid your lawyer a flat fee, probably not.If you gave him a retainer, and his hours are checked off against the retainer. Then you would be eligible for a refund.

Josefine Weekey: My sons dad is abusive and I let him live with my son! and I. Me being the nice guy turned into horror. I got fed up! , when he went to work I changed the locks. I called my family and told them what happen so when he comes home I was protected. I told him he could not come in unless he is getting his things. If you need police you can call them but where I am cops don't come for that anymore. Being in a abusive relationship is not easy to get out of. But you cannot do this alone and you have to have something thought out. It took months for my sons dad to leave and cops aren't there forever and people ignore restraining orders.

Lucille Saetteurn: It depends on the situation. If the marriage is intolerable to both parties or one party is an abuser, then divorce might be the answer.People don't get married with the goal of getting divorced - or at least they shouldn't. A couple should try to work out their problems before resorting to divorce as a final option. But too many people have a couple of problems and immediately head for divorce court. That is what sets the bad precedent. ..! .Show more

Rolanda Merritt: If the divorce wasn't final, his stuff is still your stuff and you can probably claim every dime. Even if some of his money wasn't in your name, it's probably yours now because you are the closest living relative.

Thurman Buege: It depends on the situation. Your situation is your own and no one can tell you what is right for you and your family. Some people may may make uninformed judgements and look down on you but they dont know anything about you or your life. I think everyone that faces divorce questions the morality of it, no one ever gets married planning to get a divorce. I say think about where you want to be in the future and if staying together will make you both happy. You can always separate and see where your lives lead you. Things wont be easier but you may be happier apart. The very best of luck to you....Show more

Tosha Tawney: Where I live, (however keep in mind I am in Canada) a spouse or common-law par! tner is entitled to at least the same amount on death as they would be ! at the end of a divorce. (Here this is generally an equalization of all assets such that each party would receive half.) This is regardless of any will that the deceased may have left. This is all assuming that a separation or settlement had not been reached prior to death. If you have children with the deceased that are still underage, the estate should be responsible for child support as well. If you were making a claim for spousal support and the courts deem you entitled, you can go after the estate for that too.EDIT: Oh from the lawyer? Well, if you provided him with a retainer, he will have to render an account for the work he performed and return any balance of the retainer to you.PS. I wouldn't have thought you greedy if you were going after hubby's estate...you are entitled by law....however, in this instance, unless there was life insurance, it doesn't sound like he left anything but debts.My heart goes out to you in these terrible circumstances....Show more

! Idell Syed: Okay, I think you are misunderstanding what I am asking. I want to know if I can get any money back from the lawyer. Do they take the money out from the retainer hourly? I dont think you guys understand what happened. If you really want to know I had to leave my husband six months ago because of his drug addiction. He took all our money, maxed out every credit card and sold all of my things. I need a little bit of money to survive. I am not being greedy....Show more

Mitzie Clough: Not good at all! I've noticed that kids that come from a broken home, will repeat the same. Girls that come from broken homes are VERY NEEDY! That has just been my experience.Other bad things also come from divorce. Many kids from divorce parents get into drugs/alcohol and other bad stuff.

Rick Duchane: Restraining order might work.

Rufus Plough: He has been threatening me, and coming up to me like he is going to fight me like a man, he is very jealous, and! recently accused me of smiling at another guy while he had his friends! at our apt, and he cussed me out in front of everyone, and threatened me. What do I do to get him out?

Robin Marchione: Just glaze your eyes over then bring him a sandwich & a beer. Sit by his feet & stare blankly into space. A nervous tic might be a nice touch too. You'll scare him to death ! Not only will he go get you more chocolates but he'll sleep with one eye open for the next week.

Raymon Fiene: Yes a lot more details. Money back from who?It depends on how much you gave him as a retainer and how much work was done. Call them and ask for an itemized bill. If the amount has not reached what you paid you are entitled to a refund.

Frank Crummell: get a restraining order.

Alden Soldano: No, but it is necessary. I thought I would be married forever, but my ex husband became addicted to drugs and abusive. I had to end the marriage - not only for my safety, but for that of my children as well.

Arnette Dominici: I think that in the interest i! n all involved the situation would be better without the marriage then yes. It does make things harder on the kids but some marriages are harder on the kids than a divorce.

Arnette Dominici: no i don't really believe in divorce, i think that any problems faced can be solved. divorce is like running away from your problems.the only time that i think divorce is the only solution is when the one person cheats on the other.

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Clemmie Burkleo: No!!!I f you go into a marriage with the mindset that you are going to get divorced then I would say the odds are that you will!My issue today is that too many people are willing to walk out of marriages with their baggage all ready for the next su! cker, instead of working on their issues and relationships.Marriages ar! e not easy and it takes commitment, giving as much as you can, instead of always taking, and confronting issues and dealing with them. That is the way you raise healthy marriages AND healthy children.Walking away is just a solution that is a non-solution in the majority of divorces! Many were doomed before they ever began!...Show more

Bruce Calise: No, it is extremely stressful for you. I am right now going through a divorce in my family. It is financially hard, and once again stressful!

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Inell Riesgo: You can spell divorce and lifestyle but not "when" or "someone?"The option to divorce is "good." The need to divorce is "bad."

Cornelius Thornborrow: He overdosed. I loved him, but you can only try to help someone who doesnt want help so much before you have to leave. Thanks to everyone for being so mean.....

Jacinta Moitoso: I meant the money back from the lawyer.

Chadwick Schmelz: The attorney is entitled to be paid for ! any services rendered and/or costs incurred. Since the divorce is not going to progress you should receive back the unused portion of your retainer. However, it doesn't mean you'll get all of it back, since the attorney undoubtedly did SOME billable work on the case.

Darren Heling: No.

Tobie Oshea: divorce needs to exsist, but i hate it. we should all only marry when we are sure we are in love and are going to spend our life with the person we choose to marry happily. i am engaged and am NOT getting married for at least a few years because I want to be sure, also, i think its bad to rush things. if i ever do marry i will never divorce because ill make sure its the right person and they will too.

Dexter Gold: 2. Change the locks.3. Get a restraining orderOf course there is1. Talk to a lawyer....Show more

Leif Andreason: Sure, Its was the middle of a divorce not an actually divorce.

Tijuana Tatsak: Typical money grubbing beotch.

Inez R! elihan: It will be difficult to force him to move out if he is on the l! ease and he does not want to leave.That said, you could file for an order of protection that would basically force him to find somewhere else to live. I do not know if his conduct up to now, based on what you described, is enough for an order--that depends on where you are and exactly what your story is.In New York, and this will vary by state, you can start the order of protection process by filing a form with the court called a Family Offense petition.

Donella Vasta: If you need any more details just let me know.